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MirabaiYour Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours

When couples inherit patterns of sacrificial love from parents

My partner and I realized that we each learned to love by watching our parents sacrifice everything for each other, and now we're both constantly trying to out-sacrifice the other person instead of just enjoying our relationship. We recognize it's become a problem but neither of us knows how to receive care without immediately trying to give more back.

The deeper question

Love learned as endless giving can become a competition that exhausts the very relationship it means to serve.

Concept: sacrificial competition

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